What’s wrong with your relationship or with your lack of relationship? How miserable are you about what’s wrong? What if what’s wrong brought you happiness instead of misery? Try this: next time you see something is wrong, say “Hmm, I don’t like that. What I would like instead is ….” Take a good long time to describe what you would like instead and bask in the deliciousness of it. You will feel good.
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Thanks for the great website! I check in daily as I’m on the computer a lot. I’ve found another cool site that has neat stuff for the romantic at heart. That’s me….it’s called book by you and they have personalized romance novels. pretty cool. Thanks again for the great site.
Tera
thanks indeed for the tip, shifting the way we look at things can perform a great deal of change on us!
Great tip, Rinatta! I’m reminded of the fab book by Drs. Pat Love & Steve Stosny, “How To Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It.” They advocate just a shift in mindset and in how you perceive your partner, can radically alter the happiness quotient in your relationship!!