WOMEN’s GET RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT COACHING TIP: This is advice I gave to one of my female clients yesterday. Don’t ask a man to change anything. Instead, accept and choose him as he is. If you can’t, choose out of the relationship. If you can’t do that, find things you can do to minimize the impact of his choices or behavior on you.
It’s unhealthy and insulting to ask another adult to change. And it creates resentment which eventually kills the relationship.