WOMEN: Here’s a tip on how to deal with a man who can’t or won’t get close, or won’t stay close. If you are just starting to date him, let him go. No matter what you do, you will not change him.
If you are in a relationship with him, you have three choices. Accept the distance as a part of your relationship and get busy with your own life, leave the relationship because it’s too painful, or get relationship help. You will not be able to change him on your own.