Relationship Tip: Feel Less Hurt After a Fight

by Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries on May 28, 2009

in fb, Marriage, Relationship Tips, Relationships

relationship_tipDid you just have a fight with your partner? Reduce how hurt you both feel now and later and you stand a better chance of resolving the offending issue and saving your relationship from damage.

How do you reduce hurt? Try playing 10 minutes of Tetris – a computer game – right after the fight. A recent psychological study suggests that playing Tetris can reduce the intensity of flashback of a trauma.

Since relationship fights are often traumatic and hurtful, playing Tetris could help you both reduce the trauma of the fight, take it less seriously and minimize its damage to you and the relationship.

{ 3 comments }

Ikechuwu April 11, 2011 at 7:44 am

how do you explian the situation in which a girl clams to love you and not leting people to know about it?

dee July 23, 2010 at 9:48 pm

good advice for samll fights how do u avoid the hurt when days of silence go by?

just a girl July 7, 2009 at 3:46 pm

Wow, computer games are actually good. I’m curious and I will try.

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