MEN’s GET RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT COACHING TIP: You are biologically wired to experience negative interactions as intense, memorable, and more important than positive ones. This is the fight-or-flight mechanism left over from the hunter-gather days.
This means that your limbic brain and your body will give more importance to fights in your relationship, or your negative interactions with women. You however, are a conscious being, and can choose how you think and feel, in spite of how you are wired. To be happier, choose to minimize the negative and give attention to the positive interactions.