Get Results 1:1 Coaching Program

Are you tired of being dissatisfied with your relationship life?

• SINGLES – Tired of not finding the right mate?
• DATING – Tired of the dating relationships that don’t go anywhere or end suddenly?
• In RELATIONSHIP or MARRIAGE – Tired of fighting with each other or dealing with issues that never get resolved?
• In BREAKUP – Tired of missing your ex partner and would love to move on and feel ok again?
• Are you tired of not having what you want in your relationship life?

What is it going to take to get what you want?

More time is not going to help you. Time passing changes nothing. 5 years from now you could be dealing with exactly the same issues.

More information is not going to help you. Information is good, but not when it comes to solving relationship issues, because those are run by your subconscious mind, and it does not care what or how much you know.

Improving yourself on the outside will only help you slightly. If you don’t have what you want in your relationship life, it has nothing to do with your outsides. It’s your insides that need to be improved – your thoughts, beliefs, attitudes, outlook, actions, reactions, behavior, etc.

Therapy will help you understand yourself, but won’t necessarily help you change. It feels good to be seen and listened to in therapy. But you would not believe how many clients I work with who have spent years in therapy and then come to me to finally make the changes they want to make.

The things that need to change for your relationship experience to change are deep things, things you can’t see or change by yourself. (This is why even relationship coaches have relationship coaches. Even experts at relationships can’t see some things about themselves!)

So what is it really going to take to get what you want?

It’s going to take an understanding of what you want and what is in the way of getting it. Or to say it another way, what’s in the gap between what you have and what you want. Just imagine that you see what you have on one side of a canyon and what you want on the other. What’s in the gap, in the way of you getting from one side to the other? What needs to be done about that?

It’s going to take concrete, doable steps that will lead you through that gap and out the other side. Some of these steps might involve learning something new. Some might involve insight and understanding that you did not have before. Some might involve looking at yourself, your behavior and motivation. Some might involve doing something radically different. The possibility of what your steps might look like is endless and is based on you and your needs.

Who do you know who can lead you through this kind of process effectively?

See, you are very lucky, because now you know me! I specialize and leading clients from where they are to exactly where they want to be, with concrete, transformational, authentic, practical steps.

I have coached a myriad of clients, spanning the gamut of relationship experiences from horrible to mildly annoying. I have coached people just out of breakup, singles wanting to finally find their mate, men and women stuck in frustrating dating situations; men and women in relationships and marriages who did not know what to do about their relationship; couples on the verge of a breakup and those committed to each other but miserable.

And I have helped clients in every one of those situations get what they ultimately want!

So what is it going to take to get what you want?

Work with me as your coach in a 1:1 coaching program, which consists of  2 to 3 telephone coaching sessions a month, for 6 months to 1 year. This program will enable you to make the changes necessary to get from where you are to where you want to be!

(And if the idea of investing this much time in yourself makes you want to click away, realize that if you don’t do some deep work to change where you are, in 6 months to 1 year you will probably be exactly where you are now, but more frustrated and/or unhappy!)

Invest in yourself and let me invest in you, by giving you my 14 years of experience helping people change their relationship path and their life.

Not ready yet? Try working with me as your coach in one 30-minute introductory Get Clarity Coaching Session.
Want more evidence that I can help you? Read client feedback.

Here are the details of how 1:1 coaching program works:

1. I coach clients over the telephone, in 1-hour coaching sessions. I work with clients all over the world, including Europe, Asia, etc. If you are located in Portland, Oregon, USA area, let me know and we can do some of your coaching sessions in person.

2. You choose a coaching session package: 2 sessions a month or 3 sessions a month. Many clients start with a strong start – 3 sessions a month – and then scale down to 2 sessions a month as they start to get a handle on their issues and on the work they need to do to get what they want.

3. We schedule your sessions at either weekly or bi-weekly intervals, in a way that is convenient for you.

4. The first few sessions are spent on getting to know you, formulating a plan and solving any immediate burning issues. After that, we work on both what’s happening in your life and on moving you towards what you ultimately want.

5. You come to the sessions with an agenda of what you want to work on and I add to that agenda by taking you where you need to go. You will walk away from each session satisfied, full of insights and changed!

6. We stay in contact between sessions by email, so that you can feel supported as you work towards what you want. By email you can tell me about your successes, breakthroughs and wins and I can cheer you on. You can also tell me about what’s not working, and I can coach you or make suggestions.

7. Sometimes clients need to add on an extra session at their request and discretion. Clients will at times add-on extra sessions in times of stress and difficulties, or because they don’t want too long a time between coaching sessions. I bill additional fee for these extra sessions, so they are never a requirement. I just want you to know I am available to support you more if you need it.

6. Stop working with me as your coach when you are ready. All you have to do is give me a week’s notice and you are free to go. However, be careful about this. I go very deep with clients, deep enough to truly help them make the changes they need to make to get what they really want. And when you go this deep into yourself, you often encounter resistance to change. This is where some people leave coaching. Be aware that you don’t get what you want until you have what you want as your current experience. And you gotta stick around to make that happen!

6. Financial details: You are billed a month at a time, on the 1st of the month, for that month. 2 session a month coaching package costs $240 a month. 3 session a month coaching package costs $360 a month. I do not take insurance nor do I give discounts. These rates are already discounted from my normal $150 an hour rate due to the slow economic recovery and wanting to make coaching more accessible. I will cover the cost of our telephone calls by calling you at your scheduled time.

Ready to start working on getting what you really want in your relationship life?

Let’s start by having one 30-min introductory telephone coaching session – the Get Clarity Session – to help you understand your situation or problem and make a plan for what you can do about it the situation or problem. At the end of the session, if you are interested, we will create a coaching plan for you and move forward into a coaching program.

To learn more about the Get Clarity Session and register for it, go here.

P. S. Thanks for considering working on getting what you really want! I want you to have the relationship you want, full of love and joy and satisfaction and all the good feelings you know can come from a great relationship. I encourage you to choose to work with me as your coach, so that I can help you get all that and more!