DATING Someone New? DO NOT Fall in Love!

by Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries on November 15, 2011

DATING someone new? In the first 3 months of a relationship?

DO NOT fall in love! You are supposed to be evaluating how you and this new person get along, where you match, where you don’t, and whether you can live with that. Slow down, breathe, do not rush into a relationship. You do not know him or her, YET!

The question is: Can you slow down, on purpose, consciously, once you have started developing feelings for someone? What tools can you use to slow down, so that you don’t fall in love? Tell me below.

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