Dating

How to Become “Baggage Free” After Divorce

by Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries on March 13, 2009

in Break-ups and Divorce, Dating, fb

Divorce is hard, especially with kids involved. And no matter how mutual and even non-adversarial the divorce may have been, it still leaves emotional scars that are often carried forward into new relationships. But you can become baggage free after divorce, if you are willing to do the work. Specifically, the work of becoming baggage […]

Why You Date and Marry Your Parents

by Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries on February 12, 2009

in Dating, fb, Love Coaching, Relationships, Singles

Are you in a relationship with a partner who’s a lot like your parent? Or, are you struggling because you keep ending up in painful relationships? Click on over to find out what may be going on with you and what you can do to heal your relationship life once and for all.

In my search to accelerate personal and relationship growth for clients, I have been sampling guided-visualization CDs and MP3s. I have probably tested at least 30 different guided meditation CDs and have finally come up with a list of five that I highly recommend to anyone trying to patch up a difficult relationship or working […]

The reason a man or a woman has an affair is because his or her needs are not getting met in the primary relationship. Most often, these needs are emotional rather than physical. Affairs are not a way to exit a relationship or a marriage by finding a new partner. Rather, affairs are entered into […]

Are you having a hard time believing that you can have a wonderful, deeply satisfying, loving relationship? Do you think thoughts that make it impossible for you to believe that your dreams of true love will ever come true? Do you wish life was different; people were different, so that you can have the relationship […]

What’s wrong with your relationship or with your lack of relationship? How miserable are you about what’s wrong? What if what’s wrong brought you happiness instead of misery? Try this: next time you see something is wrong, say “Hmm, I don’t like that. What I would like instead is ….” Take a good long time […]

What we perceive is what we become. Are you sure you see what really is? Question your perceptions. Ask yourself “what else might be going on here to cause this situation?”

Are you afraid? Ask yourself: Is it happening, or is it something I am afraid might happen because it has happened to me before? This is how you will know whether your fear is founded or unfounded, and whether you should be afraid, back up and protect yourself, of open your heart despite fear and […]

I bet you are in dire need of a holiday gift giving guide that won’t drive you insane with mall and hi-tech store shopping and will help and improve the life of your gift recipient. For the first time ever, I present to you the Love Coach’s Holiday Gift Giving Guide. In this gift guide […]

People often compromise or lose their sense of self in a relationship. They may do this to be liked, to be loved, or to please their partner. Some people may compromise what’s most important to them and to their well-being because they believe they have to. Some people may lose themselves in the relationship because […]