Best way to react to negative interactions




MEN, why do negative interactions with women affect you so strongly? I give you the answer here.




Should you ask a man to change?




WOMEN’s GET RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT COACHING TIP: Should you ask a man to change? I give you the straight up answer here.







How to get everything you want from a woman




You can have everything you want in a relationship with a woman. How? I tell you straight up here.







3 mistakes men and women make in dating, relationships and marriage




This past Sunday I spoke at the Portland Healing Arts Fair on the 3 worst mistakes men and women make in dating, relationships and marriage and what to do instead. I want to share the video of this talk with you below. I will be re-recoding this talk shortly to turn it into a course, […]




Suffering in relationship? Here’s how to stop.




WOMEN’s GET RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT COACHING TIP: Women often suffer in relationships, putting up with behavior we don’t like, while resenting it. We expect to be appreciated for this suffering. The point we miss is that putting up with and suffering is YOUR choice. There is no payoff, no appreciation, nothing in return for putting up […]




Virtual tour of my new PDX office




Want to visit me at the office? Watch this video as I give you a virtual tour of my new office in Portland, Oregon. If you are local to Portland, Oregon or Vancouver, WA, you can now come and get coached by me in person at the office.




Come see me at the Portland Healing Arts Fair




I will be speaking at 1 pm at the Portland Healing Arts Fair, in Portland Oregon, on the “3 worst mistakes men and women make in dating, relationships, and marriage AND what to do instead”. Please come see me. I would love to connect with you. The fair has a great line up of speakers […]




Video: How to Find Your Soul-Mate




Recently I led a singles event where I gave a presentation on how to do dating right. I noticed as I was talking about tips for better dating, most singles actually wanted to know where to find their mate. In this video I address just that question.







End the fighting in your relationship




Can’t stop fighting and having conflict in your relationship? Try following the four no-fighting ground rules.







Why do you do what you do in relationships?




Relationships seem so natural, like breathing. But is our relationship behavior or choices natural to us? Hmmm. See what I have to say about it.